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Lose You To Love Me - Selena Gomez

The Experience: I needed to hate you to love me... You were bad for me and I held on to you for far too long...
The Vibe: Decision. Confidence.
The Topic: Relationships. Happiness.
The Value: Integrity.
The Tension: Set fire to my purpose and I let it burn (Bad for me and I let it happen) VS. I needed to hate you to love me (I finally mustered the confidence to reject it).

Music video: The color matrix is black and white. Stark and decisive. A powerful echo to Lose You To Love Me's message. There is bad. And you have to reject it. Hate it. Close the chapter and say goodbye  to it. Or you'll never be happy.

The Meaning of Lose You To Love Me: Selena Gomez offers a break up song with a message that goes far beyond relationships. He was venomous. He set fires in her forest. He sang off key in her chorus. He set fire to her purpose. And he enjoyed it: you got off on the hurtin' when it wasn't yours. He made you think the pain was right: made me think I deserved itShe let him - I saw the signs and I ignored it rose colored glasses all distorted - and that was destroying her - slow dance killing me slowly. What saved her? Hatred. That seems drastic but it's so very true. Loving yourself and others means hating the things that hurt you and them. Means rejecting them. Means saying goodbye now and forever. I needed to hate you to love me.

Ask yourself: Do you have the strength to hate evil?

Album: - 2019

LYRICS:


You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
Set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus
'Cause it wasn't yours
I saw the signs and I ignored it
Rose colored glasses all distorted
Set fire to my purpose
And I let it burn
You got off on the hurtin'
When it wasn't yours, yeah

We'd always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me

I gave my all and they all know it
You tore me down and now it's showing
In two months you replaced us
Like it was easy
Made me think I deserved it
In the thick of healing, yeah

We'd always go into it blindly
I needed to lose you to find me
This dancing was killing me softly
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah

To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me

You promised the world and I fell for it
I put you first and you adored it
Set fires to my forest
And you let it burn
Sang off key in my chorus

To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to hate you to love me, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah
I needed to lose you to love me
To love, love, yeah
To love, love, yeah
To love, yeah

And now the chapter is closed and done
To love love, yeah
To love love, yeah
To love, yeah
And now it's goodbye, it's goodbye for us

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